【分享】Love advice

這是我在這期Glamour上面看到的 打出來跟大家分享
要是有字打錯請大家包含

這是來自一個歌手Alanis Morrissette, 最近跟Ryan Reynolds訂婚

她的歌很好聽喔! 我上次去星八克有看到在賣

Why you should follow Alanis Morissette's love advice
                                                                                
yes, the infamous man-hater is in love, thanks to these lessons learned
in couples counseling:
                                                                                
1. To fine the right one, you've got to be the right one
" The more growth you experience on your own,"says Morissette, "the
healthier you are and the healthier the person you attract will be."
                                                                                
2. Put yourslf first
"I used to think I had to constantly give with every person I was with. Now
I'm better at boundaries. I feel more connected to Ryan when I take care
of my own needs. Then I can choose to love him because I'm inspired to, not
because I need him. It's not his job to fill me up; it's mine."
                                                                                
3. Resist the urge to cling
" Ryan often needs to spend an afternoon alone, just doing something without
me. In the past that would have made me feel abandoned. But giving him time has helped me nurture my own career, hobbies and friendships. There's an
open road in front of us, and I have a sweet compatriot on this amazing
journey."
                                                                                
From Glamour, September 2005. P202

覺得這些建議都不錯哩
重點就是獨立 獨立 獨立  和自我成長

[ 本文章最後由 nadine 於 2005-8-13 at 09:51 AM 編輯修改 ]

Man, I feel like singing her song "Ironic" haha dang, I once turned down a girl cuz she used to like Alanis Morrissette...